Why the Optics Decide the Cabling
At 400G and above, most Ethernet links are built from several lanes. A transceiver can carry those lanes on separate fiber pairs (parallel optics), or combine them on one pair using different wavelengths (duplex optics). The choice fixes the fiber count, the connector at the port and the reach, so it must be known before trunks and panels are ordered.
The interfaces are defined by IEEE 802.3 (for example 802.3bs, 802.3cm and 802.3df) and packaged in form factors such as QSFP-DD and OSFP defined by multi-source agreements. The data sheet of the exact module you plan to use is the reference for connector and fiber details.